Feed your head

Listening to White Rabbit by Jefferson Airplane. 

It gives me fucking goosebumps. I love it. 

And though it’s not what the song is about, it made me think more about what’s become my theme for the week.

Which is what I’m doing writing a blog and whether and where I will get inspiration to write. 

I wrote a post about it the other day, the rush of creativity I get and the emptiness that comes when it’s spent. 

When that emptiness occurs, I “feed my head”. 

I listen to music, most recently music made before I was even born. Music of the 70s.

I watch television, most recently The Flash and Arrow. But also Bob Ross and The Great British Bake off when I need to lower my stress and anxiety. Just yesterday I finished watching A Series of Unfortunate Events with my daughter. 

I read. I finished The Handmaid’s Tale last week. I read my Facebook page til I can’t stand it anymore. I read the Washington Post to catch up on all that is wrong in the world. And I read my fellow WordPress bloggers. 

At some point when I’m filled with all the words I’ve heard and read and I turn them into the fuel for my own story. 

Much of the time I’m doing these things, I have a voice in my head (very literally my patriarchy as it is my father’s scolding voice that I hear) telling me I should be writing because it is my lifeline and my only hope. 

But I need this input, this inspiration. I need to feed my head and my heart, so I have the words to say what I need to. 

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Explanation of a life

I have been questioning what it is I’m doing here on a blog for the last couple of days. 

What started as an outlet for my (usually) ever changing moods due to my rapid cycling bipolar disorder has become a mishmash of me talking about my life, my pain and my writing. 

Am I allowed to have a blog that doesn’t have a one track mind? 

I just read a blog post by Alex Press (I’d reblog it but I’m not sure the proper etiquette and lack the know how at the moment)  so I’ll just put the link here

It was written by a woman who is sick, like me, with migraines and and brain damage and heart issues (oh my), like me. She also writes despite these things, like me. 

She’s an inspiration and I love following her blog. 

So thinking about what it is I’m here to do, what it is I’m hear to say, it came to me again. 

I’m here to explain myself, to myself and to others who might be interested in understanding or learning about what it’s like to live in my shoes. 

I’m here to give my life structure and form, instead of living everyday without some sort of record of the life I’m living.

 To put myself, my life, my mind, and my atheist stand in for a soul into words. To sum up my life. So I can give it further value than it currently has. 

Explaining is not complaining. 

Sometimes when the pain is too much, when the act of writing about myself seems too presumptuous and narcissistic, I wonder to myself, am I just here to complain about this life that I have? 

Today, I think not. I am still explaining to the world who I am. I can write about my pain without it being a whimper.

 And if on occasion, a whimper is all I have, I accept that as a part of who I am. 

Soaked

I feel my creativity flow like a sponge caught in the ebb and flow of the ocean tide.

One day I am awash with ideas and visions bubbling inside me like ocean foam lapping on the beach. When I’ve reached my capacity, I overflow and can no longer contain the torrent of my imagination and I focus my efforts to create something new and beautiful.  I am swept away by the tug of the words, and every creative drop is purged from me. 

I am left stranded and empty on the dry sand of the beach, scorched to a husk by the beating sun, wordless and visionless. Unable to think or create, I am empty and in need of the flood of inspiration that moves me to write and the desperation to have my voice heard. I suck in the tide, every bit of stimulation, absorbing every spark of ingenuity I can find to fuel the creativity that comes once again.

And suddenly it’s there, the wave of brilliance and exuberance that compels me to disgorge my thoughts, my voice, and my art into the world.

I want to be heard. The tide demands it.

“Cheated” for the #brave10objectchallenge

His phone

Her number

Door slammed

Back against wall

Perfume bottle thrown

Laptop torn

Arms bruised

Fists shaking

Tears down neck

Police not called

See the challenge here. https://braveandrecklessblog.com/2017/06/15/there-is-still-time-to-participate-in-the-life-experience-captured-in-10-objects-writing-challenge/

I initially named this “Cheating” but realized with the vagueness inherent in the challenge, it wasn’t clear who had been cheating. Maybe that was some of the appeal. But I changed the title to Cheated, after it sufficiently bugged me for too many consecutive days.

Aside

I can’t come up with a clever title today

I feel terrible today.

I’m tired and sore.

I’m moving about a foot and a half a minute. When I’m lucky enough to be standing.

My brain is tired and keeps urging me to curl up into a tiny ball on my bed covered with a fuzzy blanket and watch just ridiculously mindless TV until I can close my eyes and sleep at a not completely unreasonable early bed time.

I am not doing this.

I am laying on my couch half covered by an afghan trying to accomplish my goal of writing something everyday.

I tend to write on days I feel okay about the days when I feel terrible. I don’t think this is what I should do.

I need/want to push past the fuzz in my brain and the weight of my eyes. To shake off the leadenness * of my limbs and bend the pain sore joints of my fingers to form the words tumbling around in my head.

On days like this I imagine my brain as a dark foggy gray forest running up to tall black jagged cliffs and thrashing crashing ocean.* Everything is just gray. And loud and heavy. And focusing on any one thing feels impossible.

Pulling words out of this sort of brain is difficult.

I have gone as far as I can today. Until tomorrow then.
* I think I’m going to start keeping track of words I make up. But definitely not today. 

* Like this but not as pretty.

Read an article, felt proud of myself – Lexicography

Falling in Love with Words: The Secret Life of a Lexicographer – http://wp.me/p4KhvY-g4M

An excerpt from Word by Word: The Secret Life of Dictionaries, by Kory Stamper

Some other time I will detail the many heretofore considered useless talents that I possess and have no way to profit from. (Or the talents that I possess that I didn’t know you could get paid for until now).

But right now I found a word for one of them.

I’ve always been precise with my language because I naturally know a words definition. (Grammar though, especially punctuation, kicks my ass, and can suck it). It’s just the way my brain works and the way I’ve always been.

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